Parents love their children.
Yes.
Children love their parents.
Yes.
Then where is the problem?
Why do children feel like parents have been violating their freedom and privacy?
Why can’t parents communicate and understand their children?
Why?
Because parents have the responsibility because parents were the ones to let their child born.
Children didn’t decide to born into this world and controlled by their parents.
Parents say that they love their children that’s why they control their life. This is the way of displaying their love.B
But do children want this type of love?
Did you ask your child that do you have any problems with me? Do you have any problem regarding my parenting behaviours and habits and methods?No
You didn’t ask your child.
You didn’t communicate with your child you don’t think that it is necessary to tell your child that I’m going to use this method or I’m going to do this for your future.
Try to understand that that child is a human. Human feels emotions. Human gets hurt and humans feel happiness and sadness.
Why can’t you pity on your own child?
Why can’t you ask your own child that what type of love your child wants?
If you didn’t think and understand this thing, then you have been violating your child’s rights. You are not loving your child but controlling that little human.
And your child will hate you.
Your child will take your love as violence.
Your child will want to never become like you.
Remember: Unwanted love is the same as violence.