F**k Boy

There is this person who manipulates you and tells you that that person is interested in you or makes you feel pretty, intelligent, beautiful etc. When that person thinks that you have fallen into the trap then that person stops doing this and turns into a cold energy. Now you start wondering and craving that attention from that specific person because it made you happy. That’s when that person starts behaving like you’re not important for that person and that person has a very vast social circle and you’re not invited there because you’re not that special.

Now you start doubting yourself that whey is that person not giving me attention and why is that person not giving me complements?

Then that person tells you that you should change yourself because you don’t fit into that person’s standards. And now you start changing yourself and moulding yourself to fit into that person’s made ideologies and standards so that you can get the same energy output from that person.

But you know what happens?

That person has started losing interest in you because now you’re looking like that person’s slave and you don’t have your own morals, beliefs, standards, ethics, personality and individuality.

Now that person will leave you and will find another interesting prey to control the other individual.

Such manipulative person is called f**k boy.

The wounded individual gets up and heals himself/herself. If that individual doesn’t recognize this pattern, that individual will fall into another trap by another f**k boy.

Who are f**k boys???

They are wounded people who didn’t heal themselves from some trauma.

That trauma can be from their parents, childhood, brothers, sisters, other family individual or a stranger.

There can be history of sexual abuse, mental, emotional abuse, harrasment,emotionally unavailable loved ones, spouse betrayal, distrust issues, bullying, manipulative behaviour abandonment issues or psychopathic parents etc.

If f**k boys fall in love, their traumas get triggered and they try to run away from love.

They will think that the other person will use them as they were using other individuals.

They have escapist tendencies to solve their problems.

F**k boys need to heal in order to interact with the society normally.

Some people are safe to love and safe to be in integration with.

We all are wounded warriors.

Let’s heal ourselves and not be f**k boys.