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F**k Boy

There is this person who manipulates you and tells you that that person is interested in you or makes you feel pretty, intelligent, beautiful etc. When that person thinks that you have fallen into the trap then that person stops doing this and turns into a cold energy. Now you start wondering and craving that attention from that specific person because it made you happy. That’s when that person starts behaving like you’re not important for that person and that person has a very vast social circle and you’re not invited there because you’re not that special.

Now you start doubting yourself that whey is that person not giving me attention and why is that person not giving me complements?

Then that person tells you that you should change yourself because you don’t fit into that person’s standards. And now you start changing yourself and moulding yourself to fit into that person’s made ideologies and standards so that you can get the same energy output from that person.

But you know what happens?

That person has started losing interest in you because now you’re looking like that person’s slave and you don’t have your own morals, beliefs, standards, ethics, personality and individuality.

Now that person will leave you and will find another interesting prey to control the other individual.

Such manipulative person is called f**k boy.

The wounded individual gets up and heals himself/herself. If that individual doesn’t recognize this pattern, that individual will fall into another trap by another f**k boy.

Who are f**k boys???

They are wounded people who didn’t heal themselves from some trauma.

That trauma can be from their parents, childhood, brothers, sisters, other family individual or a stranger.

There can be history of sexual abuse, mental, emotional abuse, harrasment,emotionally unavailable loved ones, spouse betrayal, distrust issues, bullying, manipulative behaviour abandonment issues or psychopathic parents etc.

If f**k boys fall in love, their traumas get triggered and they try to run away from love.

They will think that the other person will use them as they were using other individuals.

They have escapist tendencies to solve their problems.

F**k boys need to heal in order to interact with the society normally.

Some people are safe to love and safe to be in integration with.

We all are wounded warriors.

Let’s heal ourselves and not be f**k boys.

VICTIM BLAMING

I have opened my twitter and I’m noticing that many men are blamin Ayesha, the victim of Minar-e-Pakistan Incident.

Do we even have the right to blame that woman after more than 400men did this harassment and sexual terrorism to her????

Even if someone comes naked, that means that someone is giving you the right to sexually assault that person? If someone is coming to meet that person’s fans, that means she is giving you the right to sexually terrorise her? If someone is a tiktoker, that means you have the right to grab her, push her, tear her clothes and make her videos?

Aren’t you men ashamed to face your mother,daughter,wide or sister’s faces?

Or this country is such full of shameless people?

Whenever something happens to women, everyone starts giving explainations of why it happened? And it is never the asaaulter’s fault. It is always the victim’s fault.

WHY????????

Can’t you people repent for your sins???

So you even know that their is a thing called inner monologue? I think that many people don’t have that.

I don’t know what to say even.

I’m so tired of people giving explainations to these trash every second.

Just hang those assaulters and game finished. No need to give explainations.

LAW: If someone assaults someone irrespective of gender, that person will be publicly hanged.

The End.

Minar-e-Pakistan Incident

Here I’m speechless.

In this country, no woman is safe.

How can you 400 men tore a woman’s clothes play with her naked body like she is a sexual object for you or she is like a football for you.

Where is our Prime Minister who is saying that men can’t control themselves and they are not robots???

If our Prime Minister is like this, how can we not expect such incidents in this country on the Independence Day in Minar-e-Pakistan.

Women are alive to pleasure your sexual frustration. Women don’t exist in public places to please your eyes.

I don’t know how can XY chromosome can do such a thing to XX chromosome.

Then silent men say that men are not trash. Don’t say that we are trash. Why can’t women even say that men are trash when you men are doing such a horrible things to women.

Noor was killed by a man. You men kill, rape,harass us on streets. We cannot even say that you are filth?

Now I want to point out to women.

People say to me that women are also at fault for not speaking up for themselves.

Yes, you’re right.

Women don’t speak for themselves. Some women are scared, some women want to be slaves. They have closed their eyes to this slavery system and want to live in peace even if someone is treating them like a dustbin.

Some women are trying so hard to get their rights. Some women are trying to free themselves.

I hope one day, all women will stand up and kill this system of slavery of all genders and build an equal and just system for all the genders so that nobody can harm any gender.

I want to punish all those 400 men so that those 400 men will remember how to treat a woman who is existing in front of their eyes and they couldn’t control their sexual thoughts and body started acting like filth.

I want to treat them on psychological basis as these men weren’t in their right minds when they such a horrible deed to a woman one cannot even imagine.

I hope and wish all gender to be safe in Pakistan but I also know that it’s a long long struggle as it will not happen any time soon.

Unwanted Love is the same as Violence

Parents love their children.

Yes.

Children love their parents.

Yes.

Then where is the problem?

Why do children feel like parents have been violating their freedom and privacy?

Why can’t parents communicate and understand their children?

Why?

Because parents have the responsibility because parents were the ones to let their child born.

Children didn’t decide to born into this world and controlled by their parents.

Parents say that they love their children that’s why they control their life. This is the way of displaying their love.B

But do children want this type of love?

Did you ask your child that do you have any problems with me? Do you have any problem regarding my parenting behaviours and habits and methods?No

You didn’t ask your child.

You didn’t communicate with your child you don’t think that it is necessary to tell your child that I’m going to use this method or I’m going to do this for your future.

Try to understand that that child is a human. Human feels emotions. Human gets hurt and humans feel happiness and sadness.

Why can’t you pity on your own child?

Why can’t you ask your own child that what type of love your child wants?

If you didn’t think and understand this thing, then you have been violating your child’s rights. You are not loving your child but controlling that little human.

And your child will hate you.

Your child will take your love as violence.

Your child will want to never become like you.

Remember: Unwanted love is the same as violence.

Unknown Truamas

I’m learning many new and old things about me that I didn’t know before.

I didn’t know why I had so much craze about shopping. Now I understand. Whenever something bad happend to me, my family used to take me to the bazar to make me feel better.

That’s why when I grew up, I had a craze to go outside and do shopping and eating outside and felt better.

Another thing, when I went hostel I used to get scared to go alone outside.

And now when I’m at home, nobody leaves me alone inside or outside of the house.

Now I want to unlearn this behaviour.

If you have any toxic or old behaviour pattern, the first thing is to recognize it. In this way, you will be able to end this cycle of toxic or old patterns.